There are times that I question every minuscule little thing I have done or haven't done. Now I am at the end of my rope. I am a stay at home mom of two which is what I want. But every decision I have made in regards to raising and disciplining my kids seem wrong. I don't have anyone to turn to. I love my husband I really do. But he very very rarely have any input or suggestions.
My current problems now are with both of my kids with the bathroom. I have one that either waits too long, is to distracted, doesn't have the sensation to have a BM or is just acting out against me for some reason. All I know is that he gets mean and nasty when I ask him if he has had an accident. I mean he is 7 years old. I shouldn't be going through this still. Actually this problem started a year ago. I haven't ignored it per say but I am afraid to find out what the problem is. It is causing a lot of tension in the house because of the arguing. I don't know what to do. There have been weeks when it doesn't happen. Then I get a run of MONTHS that it is like 2-3 times a day. My other one is 3. She is ready to be trained. She can hold it and hold it for hours on end. She knows what to do, what to say and no matter how many times I take her to the potty she will still go on the floor. I am talking like as soon as she gets down off the potty she runs into another room and will go. I have even had her just stand up and go right on the floor in front of me. Yes there have been times when I have taken her she has gone in the potty. But I would say 90% of the time this is how she is. She wets straight out of over night diapers every time cause she can hold it. Ugh!
I really don't know what to do at this point. I know what I am going to be doing for my son. But my daughter on the other hand...
HELP!
Side Note
This is the first blog I have ever done. Please excuse any ignorance I have with my blog.
